Sexual Intelligence: What We Really Want from Sex--and How to Get It (Audiobook)

Enjoyable sex: it™s not about technique or a perfect body or being hopelessly, passionately in love. It™s about Sexual Intelligence.

In his three decades of working with couples and individuals as a sex therapist and marriage counselor, Dr. Marty Klein has continually seen that although most people say what they want from sex is pleasure and closeness, that™s not what they focus on during sex. Instead, we™re preoccupied with how we look, what our partner is thinking, how we™re performing, and whether we™re normal. We do more thinking, worrying, and judging than experiencing. Sex like that can™t thrill us, can™t create intimacy, and can™t, well, feel sexy.

In Sexual Intelligence, Klein shows how to stop observing ourselves during sex, ending our obsession with sexual performance and sexual normality. I don™t help people ˜function™ better during sex, he says. I teach people how to relax and enjoy sex with the body they have, the partner they have, in the situation they have. Now that™s something we all want: fulfilling, exciting sex at every stage of our lives.

In Sexual Intelligence, Klein challenges our understanding of sex, love, intimacy, romance, and satisfaction. After all, sex isn™t just an activity. Change the way you think about sex, and you can change your sex life”forever.